I will keep an eye out for that, thank you! I'm due for a reread of the book anyway :)

Yeah het or gay is never my instinct for how to read a character either. The idea of being attracted to exactly one gender is a little baffling to me even though I know it's a thing people experience, so it takes effort from an author for me to agree a character is a) interested in sex and/or romance, and b) with a specific gender only